Be kind to others and yourself

Salam

You dont have to be a donkey to make donkeys like you. If you are a unicorn, act like a unicorn. Eventually, donkeys will ask you on how to grow the horn.

Conclusion is, if u r good, always be good no matter how indifferent would it seem to other people.

We dont degrade good qualities. We enhance them.
We dont examplify bad behaviours. We change them by good actions.

Be bold and persistant in doing good. Good things dont travel fast.
True.
They dont travel.
They stay.
Yeah, there,
the HEART.

p/s: Ya Allah, please grant me a good, kind heart. Ameen...

Makin kita dewasa

Salam.

Makin kita dewasa,
makin kita tahu bahawa hidup perlu mara,
walau banyak tribulasi dan bahaya.

Makin kita dewasa,
makin kita tahu apa itu rasa.
Bukan hanya menerima tapi perlu juga memberi padanya.
Bukan hanya memberi, tapi mahu juga menerima.
Reciprocal, itu kata semua.

Makin kita dewasa,
makin malas ambil endah kata picisan manusia.
Makin faham hati mereka tak dapat dipuaskan semua.
Buat baik berpada-pada,
Buat jahat jangan sekali, kata peribahasa.

Makin kita dewasa,
makin jelas di mata, di hati dan di jiwa,
bahawa mereka yang benar mengambil tahu perkara,
akan ambil tindakan dengan segera.
Tak akan dibiar sesuatu terdera.
Lagi-lagi jika itulah amanah dan permata,
yang selalu dan akan buat kita bahagia.

Makin kita dewasa,
makin suntuk kita punyai masa.
Segala inci rasa tak sempat dan mahu segera.
Kadang kaya sudah kita punya,
tapi masa pula selalu mencemburui kita.

Makin kita dewasa,
makin dekat panggilan kubur tiap kala.
Makin kita dihambat pi dek rumah dan harta.
Jika bahagia dunia, lebih lagi akhirat kita cari merata,
moga kita peroleh berkat di sini, di sana bersama.

p/s: moga kita semua makin matang dalam segala perkara baik.

separuh nafas

Salam.

we rode in the same car. 
everyone was being so quiet. 
then this one song being played on the radio. 
everyone sang along; whole-heartedly.
that magical moment. i miss.

p/s: that song, separuh nafas. 

Salam.


Songs ive been playing these few days ..
are those that i had played last 4-5 years.

1) Muse- Unintended

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CJDAmXHHfuM

2) Radiohead- Creep

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GD-m2zSKmWo

3) My Chemical Romance - I dont love you

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TbTIRlFqD7k

4) Hoobastank - The reason

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cGs8vtjDxxY

p/s: it is a cycle. lol

7 things

Salam.


7-things-your-muslim-wife-wont-tell-you

7-things-your-muslim-husband-wont-tell-you

or perhaps, .....some would tell.

p/s: it is universal i guess. 

Masing masing

Salam

Komunikasi berkesan.
Penting.
Sangat penting.

Separuh masalah atau lebih boleh selesai melalui komunikasi berkesan. Diam itu bahasa juga.
Terkesan makan di hati tapi harus tidak selalu dijadikan pilihan.

p/s: ubah

my dream house.

Salam.

i sometimes got excited seeing pretty house with awesome deco and interesting rooms, etc.

so some of the characteristics of my dream house are: 

- it should have practical closets. As for me, a closet that is practical enough to put all my baju kurung, blouses, tops, tudungs, accesssories, shoes, handbags, etc.. i dont have much of those actually, but it is good to have things sorted out nicely coz very often, i wore the same thing coz i forgot that i have other clothes/ shawls (yeah, like that. huhu)..the space of the closet shouldnt be that huge but the arrangement, places to hang clothes and compartments should be practical. it should have a big head to toes mirror in it too, coz i like to pick and try at times. 

- it would be nice to have a swimming pool. but i bet i would have time to clean it. so, this is not really a necessity. 

- i want a big kitchen. something like a professional chef's kitchen; the cooking appliances and utensils. hihi. and then, herbs like coriander, parsley, basil, rosemary, chillies, etc are within plucking distance. lol. my mom is a big fan of herbs and plants. she plants all of em and they are really fertile, Alhamdulillah. hihi

-i also want to have a house with a mini library/ study room. In it, there would be shelves with labels. So all the books/ collections are well categorized and well kept. tables, chair, bean cushion are there too. it is cozy, colourful and non-stressful; something that VUW library offers.

- and most importantly, a comfortable bedroom. a place that i know i could rest, sleep and do things at ease. it should have a wonderful smell, calming colours (soft colours/ whitish/ pastels) and furnished elegantly/ with modern touch. big size bed, with soft and comfy mattress, pillows and bolsters. lighting is also important. it gets natural sunlight and morning breeze through the windows. apart from that, the main windows should face the main road or spectacular view (not a dead end road, etc). hihi.

so far, that's the furthest of the list. 

so what should i do to have my dream house?

of coz i need to study hard(er), and work smart (er).
and to remember, kejar dunia, kejar akhirat juga. :D


p/s: and of course, i want the house to be a place i could call home. 
a home full with loves, in sya ALLAH ...  ; )